Say something like, "In the office, your voice carries, and I can hear it very easily.
. This strategy works best.
Is this normal? Yes, this is normal.
" Ask for help with the situation and listen to recommendations.
. He's annoying me to death! My boyfriend is a very good person but he talks waaay too much! He will come into my room (yes we have separate rooms) and he will start his verbal diarrhea. That must be really frustrating, and it's not right for your husband to be verabally abusing you with foul language.
He even swore up and down that his day off we would spend nearly the whole day together and he would only go work on the house after dinner, but that didn’t happen. . If you do learn you're annoying other people, don't be defensive.
. I need to get one for the little beggars at my house, too.
. What’s it matter? My boyfriend is the same way, he’s silent around his family because he can’t keep up and refuses to be loud.
Make an observation and a request, and avoid using "you," as in, "You talk too loudly.
. 2. Want to add - maybe you can turn it into a game and you guys can have a “code word” when he’s getting too loud and needs to tone it down.
. . Why? Going from one exteme to another can. Boyfriend talks too much. My now husband used to tell me all the time that I'm being too loud (especially in social situations) and that made me angry at him because he was interrupting me and I didn't like being reminded that there are parts of me that I should be.
This strategy works best. .
” — lemonsoapgirl.
What’s it matter? My boyfriend is the same way, he’s silent around his family because he can’t keep up and refuses to be loud.
Because when he moved up here I found out that he was seeing someone there (before he moved) and didn’t have the guts to end it with her (so he says).
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